LOL, more news:):)

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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 4:19pm
Ok, for the good news, I am a Grandmother as of this morning! The third one for me, first one for my youngest son:):):) Ok, and now more UPDATE on the D. I have all my documentation in order. Just a note of advice to any of you that may be thinking of D'ing you H or W's! But this book, Divorce War! 50 Strategies every Woman needs to know to win! This thing is GREAT:):):) I bought a digital camera and started taking pics of everything today and I mean everything. Every plant, candlestick holder, TV, VCR, get pictures of it all! Take pictures of cars, boats, etc........ Make copies of every piece of financial paper work you can find, no matter how trivial you may think it is. Start buying groceries with a check and get extra cash out and stash it! Anyway, I’ll get off my soapbox! Oh and I told MM that he was on the backburner until further notice! Take care! NMR
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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 4:23pm
That was suppose to be BUY this book Divorce War! Oops.....NMR
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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 4:30pm
oh my god! finally someone who I can get some answers from! When you say you put your man on backburner what is it you feel for him? Do you plan on being with him? Do you love him? Do you plan on spending time with him when you get your #^&* together? I need answers. Please answer these questions honestly and with feeling. I need to know what is going on in my mans head. He has me on backburner while his wife is leaving him.
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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 4:31pm
hey NMR, congrats girl on being a granny again!! wow, 3 of them. i'm still waiting for my first.

and YOU GO GIRL!! get it all. and keep throwing out the advice re: planning for a divorce. i should have been a boy scout -- "always be prepared" -- that's my motto in life!

hugs to you honey!!


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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 4:32pm
congrats nomo!!! I am so glad for you and your son.
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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 4:40pm
Hey granny! where is my advice? I am a granny of 5 and lookin up to a granny of three! YEE-haw!
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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 4:40pm
Hello XXX, OMG NO NO NO, I don't want to be with my MM, now or after my D. I am doing this for me and no one else. When I told my MM about me filing he ask me what that meant for us. I told him "I want to keep things just the way they are between us "You stay with your W (which he has no intentions of leaving)and lets keep US doding what we have been doing for almost 2 years. I love our relationship, we're great friends and we have fun in the sack, It's ALL GOOD! The main reason I put MM on the backburner is I am not about to risk losing my House or anything having to do with my D because of some man. To answer your question, I love MM as I do any friend but NO I am not in love with him. I am so looking forward to being able to control my own destiny and not allow someone else dictate to me what they think I should or should not do. So, Did I answer your questions? Take Care and DANCE NAKED every chance you GET:) NMR
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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 4:48pm
I understand! I don't want to control my love. I just want to be with him whenever I want with no restictions. I don't plan on ever getting married again. 25 yrs. of being a slave was enough for me! I just was wondering if he will be back to me because I DEFFINATELY want him in my life. He says she is going to take him for everything he has left and he doesn't want our relationship to mess that up. His kids are envolved here too. so yes you helped! thanks!