Lonely Tonite

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Lonely Tonite
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Fri, 10-24-2003 - 8:26pm
Hi everyone, well I am sitting here very lonely tonite. H is at work, haven't seen MM since end of July. Then didn't talk to him til almost end of Sept. He said things hadn't changed at home, but work was rough, had some health problems too he said. He had said lots of times before he wanted us to go on with our A for a long time. I asked him if he still wanted that and he said yes, but circumstances got in the way. Said he would like to get together again. But now it's been about another 3 weeks since we last talked. I just don't get it. If things haven't changed so much, where is he?? I would like to believe him ... but my heart tells me something's wrong? Am I stupid for still hoping? Have any of you gone thru this and come out still in the relationship? We were seeing each other for 2 years, and a couple of months not talking or seeing him would be okay if I knew there was a light at the end of the tunnel ... thanks for listening,

Dusty
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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 8:42pm
hi dustyrose l feeling really lonely to night but been 10 months since l talk to my mm need him so badly right now.that jerk of SG hurt me so badly l hate this SG . for hurting me so much made feel old ugly all the time, he always made sure to tell me how pretty other womem were but never me.if you like to chat here is my e-mail geaoann@yahoo.com then l will send you my chat name ok. hugs sweetie not alone we are here for you.
kimmy
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 8:46pm
Thanks for your support Kimmy. I will email you right now if you're lonely too, maybe we can talk awhile, bye.

Dusty
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 9:11pm
Hi Kimmy, I was just trying to send you an IM. I got AOL after all.
xxxx
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Registered: 08-31-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Sun, 10-26-2003 - 4:06pm
It is hard sometimes to know, which is due to circumstances and which is by choice. Sometimes I think he could see me if he really wanted to. But reality is, work takes a real lot of his time, kids takes a large part of it (there isn't an extracurricular activity that their not involved in), plus he has his friends and hunting golfing football and the list goes on! So I am grateful that he still makes time to see me a few nights a week plus we see each other every day at work. I look at it this way...with the above list (me included) it doesn't leave much time for his wife so I know he's not doing any bonding with her.

But you are right, I've spent many many lonely nights!

Focus on what he does add to your life, not what he can't give due to circumstances out of his control...that's what gets me thru.