"Longtimers"-DDay Question

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Registered: 12-25-2007
"Longtimers"-DDay Question
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Mon, 01-26-2009 - 3:47pm

So I posted about a month ago about our DDay of sorts. It wasn't a total discovery but we have had to drastically change some things and communication is severely limited at this point. It has been an awful month of ups and downs.


We tried to get together last week for the first time since and it went horribly! I can't post the details, but we never made it to actually be together due to his fear and nervousness...


It was awful. We "talked" it out and after some misunderstandings decided that as long as we were both willing to work at it and be patient that we wanted to get back what we had before that infamous day. I meant it

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 5:54pm

Yes, we had a dday 18 months ago.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2009
Thu, 01-29-2009 - 10:57am
We did stay together after our first D-day, but it was never without looking over our shoulder and being nervous.
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Registered: 05-28-2008
Thu, 01-29-2009 - 11:33am
My D-day taught
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Registered: 02-23-2004
Thu, 01-29-2009 - 12:48pm

We had a few scares.