Looking for EMA

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Registered: 12-08-2003
Looking for EMA
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Mon, 12-08-2003 - 1:51pm
Although I am happily married I love my "W" It just seems that everywhere I go I am looking for something else. We have a loving marriage it just always seems like our sex life is lacking. We have discussed this and things change for a little while but things always go back. At 31 is it wrong to want sex several times a week. It almost seems OK to be looking for a EMA after all the effort I have put in to not have one and have my efforts go un rewarded. Does this make sense? I just want a little intimacy is wrong to want to have a sex in your life. If my "W" will not supply it do I have a choice but to look for it some where else?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 4:29pm
Mike, you say you love your wife but you still need somebody else to talk to email/chat with somebody else? Why would you be with your wife who doesn't appreciate your effort at home? It is maybe you are missing company and friends since you have nobody to talk to in the new place?? Its easy to go off and find a person to fufill your needs but there are downsides to having an affair. Read all the troubles that we women and a few men go through for loving someone that really ours to begin with?? Think real hard before you get into this - its not very easy situation to be in and that is definitely coming from somebody who has never had it easy at all throught my A!!
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Registered: 11-28-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 4:31pm
LOL... no, not close by... so you're safe as far as a geographical sense.

If you want a friend, I'll be willing to listen, but I am in over my head with another MM myself. Again, if you want a friend in a "been there done that" situation, I'll be an ear until you figure out what you need to do. Regardless though, just be careful!

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Registered: 12-08-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 4:35pm
Thank you Serenity I need help and guidiance I have never felt so alone and lost. I guess I found the one thing I can't master. Every other aspect of my life is going well. I just can't find complete happiness at home. There is always something lacking. The only time my wife every got really agressive when it came to initiating sex was when she wanted to get pregnant.
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Registered: 11-28-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 4:39pm
nevermind


Edited 12/8/2003 5:02:11 PM ET by serenityhopefaith
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Mon, 12-08-2003 - 4:49pm
Do you want to add him to your daily spam list??
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Registered: 11-28-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 4:54pm
again, nevermind


Edited 12/8/2003 5:02:52 PM ET by serenityhopefaith
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Mon, 12-08-2003 - 4:57pm
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Registered: 06-24-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 5:25pm

Hi mike,


I really haven't read all the replies to your post as yet... just a quick glance through... but wanted to pop my thoughts up here.

Sweet
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Registered: 12-08-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 6:31pm
nevermind, why do you keep taking back your posts? Have problems telling the truth??

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