Looking for some insight

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2009
Looking for some insight
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Sun, 04-26-2009 - 4:46pm

Hi everyone,


I am mainly a lurker here, but I used to post regularly under a different name.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 04-26-2009 - 8:59pm

That is very unfortunate

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2007
Mon, 04-27-2009 - 12:07pm

I am not Lexi or someone else with a single AP. I just want to say that I am very sorry for your discovery.

I am sorry to tell you this, but what you discussed prior to discovery might not be applicable now that discovery is an actuality. What I mean is that sometimes the reality of what you have done and actually seeing the pain caused becomes too much to bear for those involved.

That said, I would advise just giving your AP some time. He feels terrible for your daughter and terrible that he was involved in something so painful.

I wish you the best through this.

~Shadowz
~Shadowz
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2009
Mon, 04-27-2009 - 5:54pm

Thank you both so much for your thoughts.


Shadowz, it was his daughter who got the texts, which of course means his pain is more profound.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2009
Tue, 04-28-2009 - 9:16am

Hi igottaluvhim & Shadowz


I am trying to imagine if it were my daughter.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 6:43am

She was mostly furious and hurt.