Looks like I will see / meet the W

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Registered: 07-12-2004
Looks like I will see / meet the W
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Tue, 09-29-2009 - 5:53pm

So it looks like I will see / meet the W this weekend.


AP's daughter has a sports event this weekend.

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Registered: 09-14-2009
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 7:25pm

Hey I have a weird question for you since you seem like you are in a similar situation. OK maybe I have several. But first wow you are WAY braver than me! I don't think I would go to an event where the W is. My AP refs some major sports and I only go if W isn't going. Anyway, do his friends know that you guys are together? How long have you been seeing each other? Sorry if these seem off the wall but I am curious as to how you are handling stuff.

Thanks!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-12-2004
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 7:56pm

Well, we'll see how brave I am this weekend lol.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2009
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 10:11pm

I have.


Hmmmm, let's see.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2009
Wed, 09-30-2009 - 2:05pm
Hi we are VERY new, about 3 weeks. So we are still trying to figure it all out. He is a firefighter and I am a medic so it's a small world we live in even tho I don't work fulltime in the field and he does. He also refs hockey and a bunch of other stuff. I am supposed to be going with one of my sons on Saturday to a game. It should be interesting he's trying to figure out how he knows me. His friends don't know yet and we aren't sure if we will tell them or not. He was waiting to do anything until his daughter went to college which happened this fall. We are just kind of seeing where it all goes and figuring it out from there.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-12-2004
Wed, 09-30-2009 - 3:47pm

It sounds like we have alot in common with our APs!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2009
Wed, 09-30-2009 - 7:02pm

It sure does sound like we are in the same boat :) Well the story is ... that ap is my friends husband. Because we are both Medics it works in my favor. So that's how we 'know' each other and how I am getting tickets. My son who is 13 will just be introduced to him as a friend of moms. Nothing major. I can agree that things change rapidly and I don't want to say "I Know" we'll be together but I hope thats what happens. I am currently Married and have been for 6 years. It has been bad for sometime now. My H is very distant not interested in me except if he feels I am not interested in him. I play a good game and AP and I have talked that at some point I won't be able to keep it up anymore and will have to walk away totally from H. He is OK with that and working on stuff on his end. It's so new that I struggle to not make any demands that I am not willing to make myself. I HATE not being able to talk to him when I want or see him when I want. It's a tough situation. But that's where we are huh??

M