In love with him or the idea of him?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-01-2005
In love with him or the idea of him?
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Mon, 10-27-2008 - 7:04pm

I think I just realized this weekend that I'm in love with a MM.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2008
Sun, 11-02-2008 - 3:36am

Well, I have to give it to you, you have a pretty strong disposition to be able to hold back your feelings and actions. I am sure that you have very strong feelings for him, but I would get out before things get complicated. He is M, and you are S, that's the same boat I am in. The only reason I tolerate it is because he is leaving his wife, and we have a son together. It's too hard to be S w/ a MM, because you have so much more time than him, which usually results in you waiting around for him to have some time for you, and it sucks!

Do you, him, and his family, a favor try to move on, because this can only bring heartache and complications all around. Best of luck in whatever you choose.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-01-2005
Mon, 11-03-2008 - 1:15pm

Well, nothing like having the angel on one shoulder (Justice318) and the devil on the other (mostwantedevil).

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Registered: 10-01-2008
Tue, 11-04-2008 - 3:04pm

Run away.... run and don't stop, don't look back.

Pink Passion Flower

 

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Tue, 11-04-2008 - 3:46pm
Thanks so much for your insight.