loving someone enough.....
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loving someone enough.....
| Mon, 12-15-2008 - 8:38pm |
i was talking with a friend who is married. and this is a question for those that are married as im single i assumed (maybe a bit naiive) that when

i don't think that most people marry for love and the thought they can be together for life married....i think they marry for the wedding (weddings are very sensationalized and create a thrill factor in people's minds), or because they have kids together..or they have been together for an extended time and are content or don't know there's better out there or don't know there is someone that is more compatible to them (that goes for a lot of issues)...they think they can grow to love one another and are accepting of just that....
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
If I ever get married it won't be for love, it'll be for security. Trying to find a relationship that has love in the equation has brought me nothing but heartbreak. If I could have my time again, I'd go back 10 years and marry my best friend. I didn't and don't love him with any passion but he loved me and would never have hurt me. I let him go because I thought love mattered.. and ironically he married a girl he didn't love, because she loved him.
But I can't see I'll ever get married, so...
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