Lunch Next Week

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Lunch Next Week
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Thu, 07-08-2010 - 9:05pm

Just a little update. Back to work this week after almost a 3 week family vacation and limited contact with MM. He contacted me first on my first day back which I was pleased about since I feel I have been doing a lot of initiating all along. I was nervous because right before I left for vacation, after a lunch together, I told him I was attracted to him and he told me he felt the same way, but wasn't sure if he could do anything about it. I figured after chewing on it for the three weeks I was gone, he would either blow me off when I returned if he wasn't interested or pickup where we had left off. So I was happy to hear from him on Tues-he stopped by to see me twice. Wed was busier for him so we didn't get to talk much. Today we spent some time together at work. It was the first time we were alone since I had left and it was very nice to just catch up, flirt and talk about whatever. He told me he would be less busy next week and we'd get lunch. I'm looking forward to spending the time with him, but have no expectations. Just going with the flow and trying not to label anything as others on this board have suggested. He seems to be receptive to my attention and he knows how I feel and I know how he feels, so I guess we'll just have to see what the future holds. The anticipation is driving me nuts though! :)Just wanted to share.

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 2:09am
Yay!
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Registered: 04-28-2010
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 4:11pm

You're right about that Jane! Not sure what I will wear, but I'll make sure to show a little cleavage! LOL It'll be during the work day so I have to be somewhat reasonable. I am not even sure anything will happen-it may just be another innocent lunch. I have been thinking about how anything even would happen since I am not planning on making the first move and I am not sure if he will either. We'll be in his truck or my minivan so I am not sure how that will work out. I'll have to update and let you all know! Any suggestions on how to move things forward much appreciated...

PS We did get to spend a lot of time together this past week just chatting and catching up and he was always very receptive and reassuring that he will be around even after his job in my bldg finishes. :)

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 11:14pm

Yay!

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