M and fell for a gypsy/player

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Registered: 10-29-2004
M and fell for a gypsy/player
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Thu, 04-08-2010 - 12:39pm

I'm a MW with 2 kids and very unhappy with my life.

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Registered: 10-03-2009
Thu, 04-08-2010 - 2:37pm

I can imagine how much you are hurting.. It must be very hard for you right now, rightfully so. Yes, you have not acted wisely, but you also never realized this is where you would end up at. Please do not blame yourself, you assumed he and you were at similar places in life, whereas he is a manipulator/player and took full advantage of your vulnerabilities. Even now, he's just playing you, hoping "the whole thing" would go away without any damage to him.

Take this as a lesson to be learned, a very hard one, and move on.. but, blaming yourself that you should have known he had alterior motives, that'll just hurt you more.

Use this as an experience to look at yourself, find out what in your life brought you to this point, and start healing and creating a better you.. start today..

Yes, you will hurt, you will feel awful.. but embrace that hurt, and use it to move on to a better life for you and your family..

We all make mistakes, trust me, some MUCH worse than yours (yes, it is possible).. yet, the only thing you can control now is what you can do in the near future.. the past is just that.. do not spend your coming days with beating yourself up, but with introspection..

Best of luck, stay here and share your thoughts with us..

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2010
Thu, 04-08-2010 - 3:04pm

I feel your pain.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Thu, 04-08-2010 - 3:34pm

I think it was better for you that things went down this way then being involved with him years down the line and he just up and leaves with no explanation. You would have been deep in the Affair and much more hurt then you are now. I know it hurts and I'm sorry for the pain he has caused you but like the other comments that were posted please learn from this experience and do some soul searching.


Hugs to you!

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 04-08-2010 - 3:56pm

I know you're hurting right now and I'm so sorry about that.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-29-2004
Thu, 04-08-2010 - 8:34pm

Thank you, all!