Maybe because he was looking forward to the vacation? Maybe he needs one? Maybe MOST of us would be really disappointed to be anticipating a vacation in the CARRIBEAN and then have that snatched away?
Maybe he and his wife are friendly, if not passionate, and he will enjoy hanging out with her - heck - he'll enjoy the surroundings anyway and everyone would be in a better mood in the Carribean.
Anyway, if you are really broken up with him, why do you care where he goes or with who? You didn't expect him to just stop doing anything enjoyable now, did you? He's probably trying to go on with his life without you, and a vacation might be just what he needs.
I do understand your anger, but I can sure see his viewpoint too.
Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
You know... and not to offend you Lexi but I really hate when people say, "Anyway, if you are really broken up with him, why do you care where he goes or with who?"
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"Why not, just NOT go on a vacation?"
Maybe because he was looking forward to the vacation? Maybe he needs one? Maybe MOST of us would be really disappointed to be anticipating a vacation in the CARRIBEAN and then have that snatched away?
Maybe he and his wife are friendly, if not passionate, and he will enjoy hanging out with her - heck - he'll enjoy the surroundings anyway and everyone would be in a better mood in the Carribean.
Anyway, if you are really broken up with him, why do you care where he goes or with who? You didn't expect him to just stop doing anything enjoyable now, did you? He's probably trying to go on with his life without you, and a vacation might be just what he needs.
I do understand your anger, but I can sure see his viewpoint too.
Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
You've got a lot of choices. I
You know... and not to offend you Lexi but I really hate when people say, "Anyway, if you are really broken up with him, why do you care where he goes or with who?"
Hi Lexi & Lost,
Thank you both for your insight.
My dilemna is, how can someone claim to
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As an aside, how would that work if he ever did get divorced?
Have to admit mozza - I haven't quite figured you out yet - lol - but I totally agree with the point about co-mingled funds.
PDW
Hi Mozzafiato,
As an aside, how would that work if he ever did get divorced?
Hey Tgr!
I hope everything is going well with you.
Hi Lexie,
Thanks to you as well for your insight regarding the shared accounts.
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