Maintaining the upper hand in A?
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Maintaining the upper hand in A?
| Tue, 12-01-2009 - 9:02am |
My AP said to me the other day that he will not initiate the "visits" between the two of us because he doesn't want me to feel like he's treating me like a wh*re which I guess sounds fair. A lot of our encounters are brief - 2 hours or less and he has to go. This is fine with me b/c we are both married and I'm not looking for a relationship.
So, I don't want to seem desperate or overly interested. I know this is kind of game playing, but I want to feel in control of things in the relationship.
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| Tue, 12-01-2009 - 1:16pm |
I'm in agreement with you regarding not contacting first. I also want to feel desired (heck that's a big reason why I'm in this A to begin with). However, I'm not interested so much in trying to keep the upperhand; but instead I love that he has to pursue me. They say men like the hunt, well I like to be pursued. Yet sometimes it is really hard to do, when I'm lonely and need to know that he's out there thinking of me.
