major roadblock

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
major roadblock
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Thu, 05-07-2009 - 2:58pm
been involved for 7mths with my mm. I am single. He recently invited me to go away for a couple of days, one of those would be overnight to the beach. Just the two of us, first time ever. When we saw each other couple nights ago we confirmed everything and his response was meet me in such and such parking lot at 10:30am and follow me.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2008
Fri, 05-08-2009 - 10:37am

After reading your original post again, I see that the two of you DID have a discussion immediately following his "directions".

Had he been concerned about being in an accident together that would have been the logical time to bring that up.

What jumps out at me is that you haven't heard from him. He would rather give up a weekend together (which are pretty rare in our situations) than call you and work this out???? THAT would really have me ticked off. You probably made the correct decision.

Sorry this happened.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
Fri, 05-08-2009 - 11:10am
That is correct, he has not called me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2008
Fri, 05-08-2009 - 1:12pm

"Is exchanging email addresses appropriate here, is that allowed? Not sure of the rules. Thanks."

If you click on my screen name, there's an option to email me.
I believe I have that option working correctly. If it doesn't work, just post that you sent me an email and it didn't go through. I'll rework my settings.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
Mon, 05-11-2009 - 10:47am
Hey Emily, i did send you an email, not sure if it went through.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2008
Mon, 05-11-2009 - 8:53pm

"Hey Emily, i did send you an email, not sure if it went through."

Didn't get it. I just sent you one. LOL.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
Tue, 05-12-2009 - 10:56am
OK ill check it when i get home tonight.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2009
Sun, 05-17-2009 - 6:45pm

My MM and I are both married, but when we go away, we always travel TOGETHER. If he or I were as paranoid as your MM, that would totally take the fun out of our relationship. I would have been very offended but I am sure MM never would have suggested for us to travel separately.


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