Making him come to you.... (spinoff)
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Making him come to you.... (spinoff)
| Wed, 01-07-2004 - 11:24am |
How do you survive while playing hard-to-get with OM? I read this in another thread, and it made SO much sense in terms of my A, and I'm sure with lots of others too!
I haven't seen OM since Saturday afternoon (but will see him at work in a few hours) and it has been all I can do to not call him to see how he is! I know this is what it's all about, but it's driving me crazy when one minute, we're making love and he says, "I could do this every morning" and then doesn't call for a week (but is still flirtatious at work)!! I'm sure he knows what it does to me.
How does everyone else survive?

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But I won't let him know that I want him that bad, at least, not til I can show him in person again!!
Dusty
I just try to remember that he's doing the best he can. I know I'm special to him and he's giving me the time he can afford to give. That has to be enough right now.
Lisa
This morning I called long enough to tell him what had been going on, he was so relived, and I almost had to laugh, I mean really!! But it was nice to see him in that light, and see how much he really "NEEDS" me LOL! OMG I love him so!!
dayz
take care and i hope you are feeling 100% soon,
gurl
While I was in the hospital waiting on the Dr to come in to see me, I laied there thinking about the last time MM and I were together and I said to him, I love you, He said you have no idea how good it makes me feel to hear you say that!!
I felt a panic when I thougt I may never be able to say those words to him again.
I had a reaction to a spice and couldnt breath, I was rushed to the hospital and was give some meds that I had another reaction to that left me unable to speak. Dr. sitll not sure exactly sure what all was going on, but told me not to say anything for a few days. I'm a total talker so it has been He!!, Now I have a deep raspy voice to go along with this southern accent.
But your right gurl, MM and I are on the same level, I guess that is why this is still working out.
dayz
It applies to single men and women but it's a good read -- it's not about playing a game or playing hard to get -- it's about being a confident woman, and a confident woman does not sit around pining. Men like and need a mental challenge, so don't sit at their feet!!!
Charlotte
Jen
I respectfully disagree. For example, when I have to travel for work, when I return, my H is up my rear. He missed me and I think he likes that he missed me. He likes that I have my own career and interests and I don't need him for my 100% complete happiness. Now believe me, I do not have a perfect marriage (or I wouldn't be on this board), but I do think that this concept apples to all M/F relationships (no matter what the level of the relationship). I think the biggest mistake women make (and I made it for years when I was younger) is that they rely way too much on their man for their happiness. Like I said, it's not about a game, it's about being mature and confident people and keeping balance in our lives. And I think in the case of true love and a healthy relationship, the chase continues on forever...
JMHO
Charlotte
In the beginning it's all about the chase, but then after you've been together for awhile it goes way beyond that.
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