Making him come to you.... (spinoff)
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Making him come to you.... (spinoff)
| Wed, 01-07-2004 - 11:24am |
How do you survive while playing hard-to-get with OM? I read this in another thread, and it made SO much sense in terms of my A, and I'm sure with lots of others too!
I haven't seen OM since Saturday afternoon (but will see him at work in a few hours) and it has been all I can do to not call him to see how he is! I know this is what it's all about, but it's driving me crazy when one minute, we're making love and he says, "I could do this every morning" and then doesn't call for a week (but is still flirtatious at work)!! I'm sure he knows what it does to me.
How does everyone else survive?

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As far as this acting like you don't need them, I've started this philosphy with my H who's a heavy drinker. I used to just sit at home and take the abuse when he started a fight or something. Now I just grab the car keys and leave for a few hours. When I get back, he's so much nicer to me. It seems like if you take the upper hand and don't just sit there and take the crap, they have more respect for you. So MM, here's news for you: If you want me, you'd better be REALLY NICE to me, or you won't be getting the VIP treatment anymore!!
Dusty
i did exactly what all u girls had taught me...
stay away..let him come to you.
And so I did..and you guys could not have been sooo right.
I had a gift on my desk, flirting looks alllll the time.
I even had a lunch date w/ someone...and he called me and
said...."I dont like it that u went out and looked that great,
and I dont like that ur not all over me....I dont like it!"
I said,,,,OH well !!!!!!!!!
Im luvin' it....
TOW
But I soooo do not want to have him not, I would be heartbroken....
But, then again, when I was out and paying attention to his friends, so as to draw attention away from us, MM was waaaaaaay jealous, and I do not like that game....
I have never played games with MM, and never will....
But sometimes, I do think that I am too open with how much I love him, and that I am putting myself at a disadvanage doing so...
I do tend to find out from MM how much I actually mean to him, when I back off a bit....
Unfortunately, I really suck at NC because I become miserable....
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