From this man's heart...the 10 percent

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Registered: 01-05-2009
From this man's heart...the 10 percent
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Tue, 01-06-2009 - 1:34pm
Hello ladies (and gents),

Some time ago, I came here with a question.

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Registered: 12-28-2008
Tue, 01-06-2009 - 1:57pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2000
Tue, 01-06-2009 - 3:10pm
I appreciate the effort here, but I have to tell ya I got lost somewhere in the ramblings. Not really sure what your point is or why you're making it here. Are you having an affair?
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2009
Tue, 01-06-2009 - 4:17pm

Dear SillyMe:


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Registered: 05-20-2007
Tue, 01-06-2009 - 9:24pm



And this is why men are often afraid to post....the ladies don't want to understand...


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2007
Sun, 01-11-2009 - 8:02pm
I agree with you. The replies were on the harsh side. Would scare me away for sure.
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Registered: 02-23-2008
Sun, 01-11-2009 - 8:52pm

"I don’t think most women can even begin to feel like when it’s not just you being our lover, but our friend, and just like everything else, friendships coupled with love, isn’t just a common thing. What has been done and said between us the course of these last 3 years, has gone from one end of the spectrum to the other, literally. It’s been a rollercoaster of passions from the very beginning. Yes, you know exactly how it feels. Don’t you? And yet, at its most poignant times, as Joseph Campbell terms it, …bliss. And she wonders why some moments I gaze upon with such intensity (and it bothers her a bit). Because it’s her."

Countless times I have read posts on here from women that say--what is he thinking--I want to know how a man FEELS about me when he loves me in an Affair...I need a mans POINT OF VIEW..

THIS MAN is telling us and some scoff.

Embach--Your Post Is Beautiful and I Thank YOU for sharing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2008
Sun, 01-11-2009 - 9:35pm

Finally!!!

A post with some depth! It is so refreshing to come to the site and read a post with some depth that is different than the frequent boo-hooing over the same thing(no offense to anyone because I am more than guilty of said boo-hooing,lol)

Your writing is beautiful, poetic and full of mystery. It reminds me of a former lover's writings. He is a deeply romantic and poetic man. I appreciate your posts, as a previous poster stated, it's wonderful to get a male perspective.

To those of you who don't understand, don't want to understand or think the post is rambling and sounding like a raving mad man, read it again. And again. Maybe eventually you will get it.