May "roll call", and a few questions
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| Tue, 05-04-2010 - 11:12am |
OK, it's time to re-introduce ourselves. If you're tired of telling "your story", you can post a link to a previous post that contained it, or you can do a "reader's digest condensed" version. :-)
My RDC version is:
I've been married many years, have known my H since high school, have some grown children and little grandchildren. I've been involved with my (single) OM for 11 years - during which we've gone through a lot! We are very good and deeply trusted friends, who have sex. I do love him, but I feel that my marriage is happy and I love my H also, and our life together.
Now the questions...
What is it you seek from this board? Do you think you're getting what you wanted here? I've noticed that some posters have disappeared since I've gotten here, and although I realize that that is the nature of this place, I also realize I could have driven some away. If there's something you wish were different, or better, share it. Don't be afraid - it might actually improve the board! :-) Share...

You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull

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Hello!! I joined this board a
My RDC version:
Met MM last summer, became friendly and friendship turned to mostly EA and
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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I'm sorry you didn't get the support you felt you needed when you posted previously mizzunderstood. Welcome back to MAS. You certainly did get three years in one small paragraph LOL!
One aspect of your relationships that is very interesting to me is the fact that your husband knows and allows your other relationship. There are a lot of "open marriages" that work, but both people have to be "suited" to it and open to the idea. Does your agreement with your H go both ways - can he pursue other relationships also? Just wondering about how it works. It might even be worth a thread of its own to discuss and explore.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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You've
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
Proud to be a
You've
There's nothing wrong with you, OR Oh_my_my. I've often noticed that the men seem more conflicted than the women from reading here. I'm not sure why. Maybe the chemicals we produce when we have good sex (in resources, there's a thread called "chemistry lesson" that explains that phenomenon) also obscures or eliminates all our natural guilt or prudence LOL. Whatever it is, it seems like once we're sexually bonded, we can't wait for the next time while they might just be pulling away! It does help when you see that it's a common "pattern", and you know it isn't just you.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
Proud to be a
You've
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
Proud to be a
You've
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
Proud to be a
You've
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
Proud to be a
You've
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
Proud to be a
You've
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