MC starts tomorrow

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Registered: 12-19-2003
MC starts tomorrow
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Sat, 01-03-2004 - 11:25pm
Starting with a MC on Monday. Finally saw MM alone again, things did not go well. Tells me he wants to continue, but when faced with it, he does not carry through. At least I got a kiss, after much effort. Oh well, keep you updated.
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Registered: 12-28-2003
Sun, 01-04-2004 - 12:35am
HI Fair

GOOD LUCK you and your family have my best wishes and prayers.

My I make a suggestion or few (I don't know way I ask I do it anyway)

1) Stop chaseing the MM if his heart is not in the A way continue, don't lower yourself in front of him, even if things with your husband did not work out you can do better.

2)Go NC with MM to give the MC a FAIR CHANCE or you may find yourself sabotageing it yourself.

3) Don't let the past rob you of a good future with a man of your own weather your husband or in time a SG (It is a lot less complicated with a SG)after ending the M cleanly.

4)Honestly do all you can in the MC (Be totaly honest with the C and H about your needs and make it perfectly clear they are NEEDS not just wants).

If you do all that you can I believe that you will be able to look your KIDS in the eye and tell them you did your best.

once again GOOD LUCK

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