Meant to be? Common theme.
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Meant to be? Common theme.
| Thu, 04-15-2004 - 3:37pm |
I just started posting recently and have been lurking, but can't help but notice a certain common theme with all who have been in long term As.
"Meant to be"...."soulmate"....lots of fate and destiny type of comments.
We (MM and I) have always said that....we knew right away. We were meant to be. We will be together someday. Have faith. That type of thing. Finding so many "coincidences" that it seems magical.
Our kids and H/W all have the same bdays w/ same age. How we met by mistake. A million things and mind reading/etc. Incredible physical connection (5 - 7 times in a night at our age, mid forties!).
We have always said we had some sort of strange connection that was meant to be.
It is interesting to me that so many people seem to feel the same way I do.
I wonder if it is just our way of justifying or if we have all truly found something unique.
Anyone else ever notice this or think about it?
"Meant to be"...."soulmate"....lots of fate and destiny type of comments.
We (MM and I) have always said that....we knew right away. We were meant to be. We will be together someday. Have faith. That type of thing. Finding so many "coincidences" that it seems magical.
Our kids and H/W all have the same bdays w/ same age. How we met by mistake. A million things and mind reading/etc. Incredible physical connection (5 - 7 times in a night at our age, mid forties!).
We have always said we had some sort of strange connection that was meant to be.
It is interesting to me that so many people seem to feel the same way I do.
I wonder if it is just our way of justifying or if we have all truly found something unique.
Anyone else ever notice this or think about it?

The next day I asked him his astrological sign and he replied Taurus. I said "Let me guess.... May 12th." He said "Yes! But wait I don't remember telling you that." I said "you didn't.... that's my father's birthday."
I am blessed with these stupid lumps called Lipomas. Fatty tumors really, nothing real serious but some can be aggressive and can grow large. I've had many of them removed. On his forearm he had a small lump and I asked him if it was a lipoma. He shook his head like "DANG this girl knows everything." LOL Yes he has about 2 dozen of them all over him too. His aunt has the same form of MS that my aunt passed away from. A very rare disease called Mia Stenia Gravis. My grandmother has only known one other individual in her many years who has had MSG.
Rather than thinking that we were "meant to be" we've joked that maybe we are indeed "the same person." LOL
What's meant to be will be.
Have a nice day everyone.
S. xx
But then again that's what led many of us into our As. We felt forces beyond our control :)
Not an attitude and outlook I'm proud of now looking back on it.
S. xx