meeting a "chore"... mad or not?

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Registered: 05-15-2008
meeting a "chore"... mad or not?
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Sat, 07-24-2010 - 2:14am
after feeliing blown off yesterday by AP, he calls me as normal as soon as he leaves home to go work. He tried being nice asking about my morning and work, plans for day. He says he want to see but his W might come to run around and pick up checks. Sometimes we spend time driving around when he picks up. We talk about him being inconsiderate yesterday, he apologizes and we move on from it. I have meeting and Friday payroll so I told him I would call him back. Couple hours go by, he text. Me few times saying hi and wondering when I would get chance to call back. I finish up early and call him. He is alone picking up checks and says he is almost done and wants to meet. So I leave and meet him. we have great time, really intense or at least I thought so. We spend another 20minutes cuddling and talking. Out of nowhere he says he has confession.... he says he wasn't in the mood but came to meet and spend time and take care of my "needs". I don't know if I should be mad or feel good he was trying. I was mad for split second but he was being sweet and caressing me and kissing me all over.
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Registered: 07-13-2010
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 1:04pm

Hi Diva...Yeah, I have to say that I would be mad.

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Registered: 04-27-2010
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 1:20pm
Ok...I get why you're a little (maybe a LOT) peeved, but I look at this from a different angle: He wasn't in the mood, but wanted to "take care of you" anyway. IDK...that smacks of someone who really cares about someone else :)
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Registered: 03-26-2010
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 12:37am

I'm glad kimber's back.

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 1:53pm
I can see why you might be ticked off, but I agree with kimber: look at it from the other angle, that being that you were that important to him to see you when maybe he wasn't really in the mood at that point.

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