Men can be so Dumb
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Men can be so Dumb
| Sun, 05-31-2009 - 8:01am |
So i asked AP about the pic of us he posted and all he had to say was, "yeah i need to keep up more with my site"..and "everyone knows we're friends anyway"...wtf? he had no concern at all about anything. He didn't stop to think about his W seeing it... he claimed she doesn't go on his site.....which i dont believe cuz they have a shared email addy....
And the pic was taken by someone at a social function, and then put up on another board, where he saw it, copied it and put it on his site. It isn't a pic that is in any way revealing or anything, and its only the two of us in that particular pic together, laughing, and having fun. But there were others of us with lots of other people in them... and only the one pic of us together.
I'm starting to think he's just playing games with me, and he's a big liar. And dumb, too.
And the pic was taken by someone at a social function, and then put up on another board, where he saw it, copied it and put it on his site. It isn't a pic that is in any way revealing or anything, and its only the two of us in that particular pic together, laughing, and having fun. But there were others of us with lots of other people in them... and only the one pic of us together.
I'm starting to think he's just playing games with me, and he's a big liar. And dumb, too.

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Your H knows about your AP !! How does it affect your M life?It cant be normal,i bet.
And H and i never have had a "normal" marriage. He never liked any of my friends or family and he has no friends himself. And since a lot of my friends are male, some married, some not, but he refers to Ap as my "boyfriend"...
Makes you wonder if he is trying to get caught......
Mine has taken to inviting me to places with tons of people he knows. It is obvious that we are there together. He paid for lunch out by my place, where he has no reason to be, with a cc/debit card. And W knows I live out here. And he did that after he had me pick him up right in front of his house late late at night. His roomate seen him get in a car and tattled on him.
Hmmm....I dont really see my APs ways as being deceptive. I think he wants out but is lacking the strength at this time to actually come out and say it. Out of his marriage that is. When he told me that W knew he left in the late late early am and was suspicious,
Mine does not have any kids with W. So that is not an issue. But from what I have seen/heard about her she would fight simply not to lose the game.
At this point she is the bread winner as he is in school. He is going to have a very good career when he gets out though so that may be another factor in if she would fight.
And I know him. If she were to ever find out what is going on before he was done with school he may back off simply because he needs to focus on school.
I really dont think he quite belives that I care. He had it really bad for me back in the day. And
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