A mess ...again

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A mess ...again
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Wed, 06-24-2009 - 5:42pm

I have lost count of the number of times I have been emotionally mangled

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Wed, 06-24-2009 - 6:31pm
please explain squirrels
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Wed, 06-24-2009 - 7:07pm

This is

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Thu, 06-25-2009 - 7:36am

Thank you so much

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Thu, 06-25-2009 - 7:41am

Irrational thoughts and worries that get into your head and mess everything up, is I think the context it was used in.

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Thu, 06-25-2009 - 4:20pm

got it, and the squirrels are all looking for nuts, which is what we feel like....

JMO I think you need to end things with him. Much easier to say than to do, I know, you know. Maybe tell him you have to be out of town and won't be able to contact him? I can't remember if you work together or not. My om was out of town for 5 days and we had almost no contact (I called once with a legal question, he texted a time or 2) and the first day was hard, but knowing he was out of town made it easier. By the time he got back, I could have stayed away if that had been my plan (not easily, but I was on day 5 of almost no contact) Anyway, just a thought. Seems like you are miserable in this r with him, that means it's not worth it.