Met MM's W - Dont know what to think....
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| Mon, 08-11-2003 - 12:13pm |
It was a total accident...MM, my sis and b/f we were planning to see a baseball game...I told MM I would meet him at a restaurant between 5:45 and 6pm...well I called him at 5:45 and his phone was off so I left him a message..not nice by the way...Im like you have 15minutes to get here...if not im leaving. Anyhow well 10minutes after the his W shows up..I was like OMG..I had my sis boyfriend with me at the time...he was like sandy thats not MM...im like yea I know. To make the story short my message on MM phone somehow went to her and she beat him there. She got out and said she wanted to talk to me...Im like sure whats up (inside I was freaking out!!) she said I dont know whats wrong with H but he lied and said you were not going to the game he was going to go with your sis b/f...im like well that was the plan but he ended up getting 2 more tickets so we are going I hope you dont mind. She was like no I wanted to meet you becuase H talks to you all the time and always runs out to get the phone when you call. Im like OH....anyhow she said it was nice meeting you im like likewise...and said sorry well I have to go. She was like I hope you have a good time...im like im sure we will it was nice meeting you.
That was that..she had tried calling me before but she has never asked what is going on between me and her H...she just says H lies to her all the time and she cant understand her..im like OH...hmmm...I mean what am I suppose to tell her...thats between her and her H.
On the way to the game...she called H and said I met Sandy...he was like I heard...she said something and I heard him say look you just a sneaky b1tch...and I told you not to be sneaking around my stuff if you did not want your feelings hurt..I am going to do what makes me happy...and then he hung up on her...after that my phone rings its her she leaves me a message and apologizes to ME for being mean and she did not mean to show up ike she did (I did not call her back of course. My MM said since I was totally in shock she is a nice woman and very naive...he told me things would not change between us he was not leaving me regardless of what she said or if she left. I told him that No other woman will put up with that. I mean she calls me to apologize when I have her H...what kind a thing is that?????
Regardless we had a great time at the game and MM did not get home till 3:30am...also he got me a dozen roses yesterday and said he had a great time friday night!
Oh so when he gets home she is up waiting on him take in mind the game was over at 9:30...she was like oh you smell good...he was like thank you. Yea it was my body wash becuase we took a shower and of course he had on my scent my perfume...so obviously she knows...I mean I have no clue???

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Edited 9/22/2003 2:05:57 AM ET by lexylew
I am not judging anyones decisions, I'm commenting on the way that someone goes about it. There is no need for anyone to have to be subjected to more pain and hurt than is necessary in an ema.
The one main thing that is expected in most ema's is respect. Respect to privacy, respect to choice, and respect to everyone involved. I just don't personally see where this wife is getting any respect. I'm sorry, but that's the way I see it. Sure you can say it's between her and her husband, and I would agree with that, but once someone else becomes involved, what happens to the respect?
I am not a negative poster, in fact I've been called on because I tend to be too blunt at times. So if you disagreee with my posts, why are you even bothering to read them, let alone responding to them?
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P.S. I guess I'll wait to see if Sandy bothers to respond, because like you say - no one can fully understand it because they aren't Sandy, and that includes you.
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Edited 9/22/2003 2:06:23 AM ET by lexylew
He has a young baby and a wife who is being pushed to make a fool of herself to understand what her husband is doing. Then, to have you both disrespect her is wrong.
You know it, I know it, it's just cruel. What do you possibly see in this guy anyway?
Since when did all of this turn so ugly? Don't you wonder?
Simply my opinions.
I dont believe I am disrespecting W in anyway...regarding the scent what am I suppose to wear unscented body wash becuase of her...NO. Now if the scent stayed on him it was not on purpose..I did not buy it for that reason! And apperantly she is not a dog...so y sniff.
Also as far as him having the baby with her was before I came around. No he was not happy and yes he had told her if things did not change he would move...he tried to work things out...she stopped the bc and got pregnant. She thought by having a baby things would change...NO it does not. And as far as him being a great father he is. He takes care of her more then she does and thats a fact.
HEY Lexy...thx girl for sticking up for me! Your right I was not planning on falling in love with him. We became friends and then it lead to more..I did not pursue him he did me...not that it makes it right. This was actually was brought up to him last night. I dont know whats in store for him nor me. He is more then willing to take full responsibility of his kids. I cant ask him to leave his wife thats not me...that would be up to him when he is ready. I am taking things day by day.
Lexy..How are things with you...I have not gotten an email from you..whats up girlie??
Edited 9/22/2003 2:06:54 AM ET by lexylew
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