Mini-"bust"
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Mini-"bust"
| Mon, 05-31-2004 - 2:52pm |
Well, here I am, MW, flirting openly with a MM client of ours. I got so carried away with talking to him and flirting over the phone, that I lost my grip for a moment and had a private, a bit incriminating conversation with my boss in the next room! Did I want to get caught? I don't know what I was thinking. I thought I was secretive, but this is the first time in my marriage that this has happened. My boss actually called me on it! He went to lunch and discussed it with a mutual friend of ours (we've got a couple of the same friends). and the friend warned me about what was coming down. My boss returned from lunch and asked to talk privately. I sat down and he said that he wasn't judging me, but was concerned that I might be crossing a line. His main concern seemed to be that this man is a client of ours (we're handling his D - separated over 1yr) and that I might be called as a witness one day. I told him that he misheard something that wasn't there and denied, denied, denied. He didn't buy it. Now, he seems disappointed in me and is a little distant. We've always had a friendly, fatherly/daughterly, or more big brother/little sister thing going on. His opinion means a lot to me and I don't know what made me act so recklessly. I haven't mentioned it since, but I feel like when it's time for this guy to come in again that I'm going to be a wreck. I discussed it with MM and he's sorry for the way this went down, but it could have been much worse. We're just starting this thing and I think I'm getting carried away with what I'm feeling but I don't want to be reckless and I don't want to stop. Help

Lucky