Missing Him

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Registered: 11-17-2007
Missing Him
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Sat, 12-20-2008 - 7:44pm
I miss my eap very very much...we have both been so busy with life, i have only seen him once since oct and we dont email very often, except when we are going to meet up somewhere....i was supposed to see him last nite and due to the weather, he couldn't make it out......now i'll hafta wait til new years eve.....we dont talk on the phone either.....our social situation is/was that we would see each other at least every couple weeks, but our hobbies/interests keep us so busy, theres no time to turn around....and this gap is hard to deal with...we havent had a gap like that in a couple years....other than trying to stay busy with life, how do other people cope with the intense feelings of missing someone? I am afraid i am going to say his name some nite if i am talking in my sleep(i dont think hubby would like that)...and i am waking up with my arms around the pillow thinking its him..
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Registered: 10-23-2008
In reply to: emscemily
Sat, 12-20-2008 - 10:40pm

I sympathize with you!!!


Haven't seen my AP since Oct either -although we do get to talk on the phone during the week - it still dosen't replace actually being with him. This weekend has been especially hard - H working 16-18hr shifts since Friday & kids are gone for the weekend - so I am home alone and snowed in - with no one in the house to distract me, my mind keeps focusing on AP and what he's doing while he is snowed in at home with his W and kids. We can't talk to each other on the weekends so I sit here and spend too much time in my head going over our last conversation, wishing he was here with me.


Although it doesn't keep me from thinking about him at least reading the post here lets me know I'm not the only one who feels/felt like this.