missing him.

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Registered: 04-16-2003
missing him.
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Wed, 03-24-2004 - 10:52pm
Man im sad. I cant call my MM. I have no phone number nor do i know where he lives. It has been like that for over a year. It is what was set up. What can i do you know? I know he works around where i live and i know what he does but i dont know. So i wait. It is not like i wait all day or all night for him to call. My life goes on. I miss him so bad it hurts. Do you all feel like this???
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Registered: 02-03-2004
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 10:29am
To add to Attorney's post, Sweet... with a pager you can create a coded number system that is unique to you guys. 1 = missing you, 2 = available are you? 3 = call me asap... etc. It works well for us because no matter the distance, the pager works. No one is the wiser.
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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 3:29pm

Hey buckaroo... sometimes I think I know waaayyyy too much about MM and his family... but I wouldn't have it any other way... besides...

Sweet
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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 3:32pm

Attorney and SS... it does sound like a good system... only problem is... I think we'd have more trouble explaining the pager away... I'm a SAHM so wouldn't have the need for one... and MM has never used one in his line of work... more likely to be given a mobile phone.


He's working on a little message that we can send on our mobiles... that could easily seem as though it was accidently sent through the wrong phone... just in case our spouses see it.

Sweet
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Registered: 04-07-2003
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 3:37pm
you are all too funny! I have to get in on this one....I only wear thongs and I wear suits to work and only wear thigh highs. I also shave everything. MM wears boring white briefs. He is anything but boring!!! I know way too much about him and his family. Have all his numbers but only call him on cell when I know for sure he is not with the W.
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Registered: 03-10-2004
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 4:21pm
Okay - I want in too! You guys are making me nuts - MM is still gone (NC due to that darn vacation) and I have at least 5 1/2 days before I'll see him and since we were on that roller coaster before he left I don't really know where things stand and I miss him and . . . . oh, I digress! LOL

Anyway - two threads here - one: I know all of MMs phone numbers, email, his anniversary, birthday, favorite wine, food, naughty likes, etc. Couldn't imagine it any other way and would be very freaked if we didn't share.

Thread two - the more fun one - he wears boxer briefs (okay, REALLY miss him now). I converted to thongs and thigh highs since we've been playing - fun to see his reaction and to let him wonder when we're at meetings together! He's definately a bra boy though - that's sort of how we started. I once showed up at his office looking professional - except when I took off my scarf and coat there was only a new red, lacy bra beneath. My how that boy can blush!! LOL

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Registered: 08-29-2003
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 6:20pm
Well i know alot about my MM too, like

his home number

birthday

his workplace name and phone number

his house address

his son's birthday

his wife's birthday

his mom and dad's name and the town they live in

his work schedule and his day off schedule

his email address

his pants size

her email address

and etc. We dont really have any secrets between us and he knows everything about me. I rather not know all of his info but i guess he trusts me b/c he tells me this stuff

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Registered: 11-21-2003
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 11:43pm
hi Sweet

this is just something for you to think about.....

we send each other text messages to cell phones via the computer, which does not show senders telephone number, it allows us the option of saying we have no clue who it is from and there is no way of tracing it back from phone display

like I said its just a thought

SB

 Seeburg    

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Registered: 01-21-2004
In reply to: angell2277
Fri, 03-26-2004 - 7:14am
Oh YES, I'm a thigh high girl too!! I think not only are they sexy as he!l, but they are SOOO much more comfortable than pantyhose. Definitely, a win-win ;o)

As for my OM...well he's single, I know everything about everything. As for him, he knows most. I haven't told him where I live exactly. He knows what town I live in, just not the specifics, but he could look it up in the phone book if he wanted. He's never really asked either. (We live in different towns.) Other than that, he knows it all.

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Registered: 01-03-2004
In reply to: angell2277
Fri, 03-26-2004 - 7:51am
ROFL

What a thread!

Yes, I know all about my MM. Wife's name, everyone's birthday...all the numbers.

He gave them to me right off, with the list of do's and don't's. LOL

He doesn't overwhelm me with talking about his home life, but he'll answer anything I ask.

He knows everything about me, too. I can't imagine it being a relationship any other way.

He wears jockeys...I wear thongs for him. (He bought my first pair, LOL)

I've just discovered thigh highs. He seems to like those, too. Althought, to be truthful, they don't seem to stay on long enough for any real appreciation. ;)

Sheez...now I'm going to have to email him and find out what color pants he's wearing today. I can only drive him crazy if they're black. (Well, if I want to be nice, that is...)



Cazrida

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Registered: 02-14-2004
In reply to: angell2277
Fri, 03-26-2004 - 9:35am
I'm just gonna start a poll...

Boxers, briefs, bikinis, au naturel for the men...

Bikinis, thongs, briefs, granny panties or au naturel for the women...

OK what kind of panties do your MM's WIVES wear?

Pondering THAT question...

3 years ago I could have been on that OTHER board...the Betrayed Spouse one...

It's really funny...the first thing I did when I got rid of my ex was to go buy MYSELF lingerie...Victoria's Secret stock must have jumped those first few months...

God if I only knew then what I know now, I'd probably still be with my ex....