Missing MM something horribly!

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Registered: 12-02-2003
Missing MM something horribly!
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Tue, 01-20-2004 - 3:12pm
My MM and I have been involved for hardly anytime at all and yet I find myself totally smitten by him. We have spent the past 7 days together. Both of our jobs allow us to work at night from home or late afternoons and spend our mornings together. And we have spouses who don't care if we aren't around on the weekends. It has been such bliss. Well, reality struck today. MM and his 2 children are sick. We had planned an exciting afternoon w/ an early dinner and hotel room that we could again use in the morning before he heads out of town on business. Well, there goes the room for today. Oh reality. It sucks how you start trying to adjust your life to how it is now that you have added EMA then life throws you a curve ball that you don't expect. I also am sitting here trying to not think about him being at home with his W. However, I am sure that she isnt being very much like a W to him. Granted on some levels, I want her showering him with attention getting him better. But then I think, would that attention get their marriage back on track. Probably not. I have his heart, I know that. No doubts either. Just missing my MM terribly and wishing he was better. I also wish that I could be there with him to take care of him. I sent him an e-card which he totally loved telling him I was thinking of him. I was glad he liked it. Anway, just venting.... needing to talk and knowing that you guys will listen.
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Registered: 10-06-2003
Tue, 01-20-2004 - 4:23pm
My MM has one of those w's who dosent take care of him when he's sick, he just fusses at him wishing he'd hurry and get better so he can go back to taking care of the house and kids. So most likely, he at home feeling bad and wishing you were there to help him feel better.

I wouldnt worry about some little thing like that setting their M back on track, exp, if it's that far gone already!!

Even if my MM's W took time for him, it still would not hold a candle to what I do for him. JMO!

Hope things are back on track soon!!

(((HUG)))

dayz
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Registered: 01-20-2004
Tue, 01-20-2004 - 5:05pm
Cheer up....I bet he's doing EVERYTHING he can to get well and get out of the house. It's so exciting when the relationship is new and you can't think of anything else but your next "fix" of your honey! This is the first time I've posted but I've been with my MM(I think that means Married Man but I'm not sure about all the "initials")for 13 months. We're still very close and we get to see each other about 2 or 3 times a week. Which is amazing because he lives 30 miles from me and works out of his house and I have a 9-5 day job. I firmly believe where there's a will, there's a way and he will be calling to reschedule and have a "make up" day soon.

Your message sounded so sweet and you sounded so sad......I hope you fee better soon and get to see HIM really soon!