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| Sun, 09-28-2008 - 6:15pm |
I just started a physical affair with my husband's best friend last week. We both agreed to take it to our grave.
He is confusing me though. He has said that he would date me if I was single. But then he says he doesn't like me. Then he will txt me and say he has feelings for me, but it would be bad if we actually fell for each other.
I know this is vague, but what the hell? I am confused and I like him. We've been good friends for a long time and things changed earlier this year. He does the little things that you do for someone you like. The tone of his voice has changed from how we used to talk. It's hard to explain.
His actions are one way one day, and the opposite the next day. Any advice or insight? I am trying to figure out how he feels because he is very vague in answers if I ask him. I HAVE asked him, and he just says something about we cant fall for each other because it would be bad for everyone involved. I have no intentions of leaving my husband for him.

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I'm not saying this to be mean...you asked for opinions as to what we think is going on.
Imo, I'll bet he is feeling tremendous guilt and remorse.
Thanks for the advice. I ended up talking to him that night and just asking. He cleared the air and things are fine.
I am not leaving my husband for him. So don't worry. Things will probably just fizzle out on their own, and I am not worried about it.