Mixed Signals, Opinions Needed ...

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Registered: 07-21-2008
Mixed Signals, Opinions Needed ...
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Tue, 09-09-2008 - 12:49am

Hello All,


I am in need of your opinions, please.

If it makes you happy and it's not illegal, DO what makes you HAPPY!
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Registered: 02-09-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 2:35am

Firstly, he wants to be with you and he's in love with you and you've only been together four months? Honestly, that makes me a little nervous. If he has had enough of his M and wants to move out, then that's fine, but he shouldn't be doing it just because he wants to be with you.

Likewise, what do you want? What's your M like? If you want to leave your M, it should be because it isn't working and you can't see it improving in the future not because of AP.

His contact pattern to me, seems to conflict with his professions of love. It sounds more like contact for a booty call, but I could be wrong. You said you are trying to protect your feelings, so you need to explore those and find out what they really are and what you really want to do about it. The bottom line is, how do you feel about all of it and what do you really want for yourself?

Pisces

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Registered: 07-21-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 7:22am

Thanks Pisces!

If it makes you happy and it's not illegal, DO what makes you HAPPY!