from your post, it seems to me that MM wants to take the R up a notch. he's pushing the existing boundaries and wantsd more contact with you and you didn't respond as he hoped. it's up to you how far you want to take the R, but you know, everything changes over time. it might just be my jaded perspective, but i get the feeling your MM is now chasing you because you are "unavailable" to him outside the usual parameters.
think about what you want. and talk with MM about it. status quo or more?
Attorneygal - It seems to me, and of course my opinion is completely peripheral, that you have already begun to have stronger feelings for MM. Am I near target? If you are losing your concentration around him, could it be that you care a little more than you are willing to admit? Think of it this way... If he told you today, even after the strange way he's been acting toward you, that he MUST call it off, and you could never talk again on a personal level, how would you react, or feel deep down?
If I am way off target there, then the other logical explanation is that he likes the thrill of the chase, as does any human w/ emotions, and you are giving off a mysterious air, and now he's trying to worm his way in.... Maybe he's not as busy as usual and he's wanting more attention than you are giving.
from your post, it seems to me that MM wants to take the R up a notch. he's pushing the existing boundaries and wantsd more contact with you and you didn't respond as he hoped. it's up to you how far you want to take the R, but you know, everything changes over time. it might just be my jaded perspective, but i get the feeling your MM is now chasing you because you are "unavailable" to him outside the usual parameters.
think about what you want. and talk with MM about it. status quo or more?
good luck,
gurl
If I am way off target there, then the other logical explanation is that he likes the thrill of the chase, as does any human w/ emotions, and you are giving off a mysterious air, and now he's trying to worm his way in.... Maybe he's not as busy as usual and he's wanting more attention than you are giving.
Or maybe he is beginning to feel something for you? Be careful.
Keep us posted,
Charlotte