MM and strange convo

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Registered: 11-13-2008
MM and strange convo
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Thu, 01-08-2009 - 7:03am
My MM ( i am single ) has been talking very strange for the last couple of days.very philosophical ! He says that destiny had a big role to play in the place we ( him and i ) have found ourselves( A,that is ).He says ,he has done nothing but given in to it and will see where life will take us! The road we have taken is very bumpy but sooner or later we will reach there.It was meant to be ,it has happened for a reason.People dont come into our lives w/o reason, etc etc.I was dumbfounded! thats not MY MM,lol! Has he gone crazy,out of his mind ?
He is a very jolly person,fun to be around and something like this coming from him is very unusual.I asked him if he cared to put it out for me,he just laughed out and said i shouldnt put strain on myself and just enjoy!
His such deep talks have left me wondering.Does anyone elses AP indulge in such deep talks?I take it as very comforting that as this is bringing us closer.
Thoughts?

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Registered: 10-03-2008
Thu, 01-08-2009 - 8:18am
unfortunately yes..but last week i bought a secret decoder ring to understand what his simple azz is talking about half the time....lol

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Thu, 01-08-2009 - 9:44am

It is his way of justifying what he is doing... He has guilt

 


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Thu, 01-08-2009 - 11:56am

LOL! you crack me! You need a decoder for simple things! what will you do hon when he has serious /tough love talk??

OTOH, why call it unfortunate? I guess when I and AP talk such,we come closer and form a bond which comes very handy when either he or I are second guessing each other or ourselves for that matter.

We just spoke on phone ( we work together) and ouch! he has a very sexy voice and just as you mentioned,i got so excited by his voice that i didnt listen what he was saying ;).

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Thu, 01-08-2009 - 12:09pm

" dont send emails" what does that mean?

I believe in destiny though.its also a choice that i and he have made and have entered with eyes wide open.I am not in this for the long haul.I am young and want to start a family.i want babies for myself.AP also wants an out from his M and start it with me.So far he has been a man of his words ,we'll see how it all comes through !

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Thu, 01-08-2009 - 12:32pm
no we are very close...i completely understand what he's talking about all the time..it's just that he's so deep all the time...lol...no secret decoder ring..i was joking...nope not unfortunately either....i love him to pieces...when he has tough love talk i listen to him, sometimes cry if it's very deep and touches my emotions....it's very normal....we are very good to one another...trust me....lol lol lol..my ap is not happy with me at this moment because i hung up on him..well not really, i said "i gotta go right now bye" and hung up this morning...he'll be fine and get over it if he wants to play around with the princess this afternoon...get me...if not then i'll just go shopping after work.....he was being very passionate about an issue and when he gets passionate boy he is opinionated and loud and etc...ugh...but i did have to go...i text him to see how his day was..he didn't respond..i suppose he's unhappy right now but, like i said he'll get over it....

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 12-24-2008
Thu, 01-08-2009 - 2:24pm
Wow, where can I buy one of those?? LOL!
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Thu, 01-08-2009 - 2:26pm

*don't send emails* means I don;t need the christians telling me god had no hand in this...


You can send me an email all you want...I do believe the people in our lives are there for a reason. I am glad you and your AP

 


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Fri, 01-09-2009 - 9:33am

((( hugs)))) Did you speak to him,hon? Has he been having probs with wifey?? My AP's W is very nagging.Once we were on phone and i could hear her screaming and shouting ,no wonder her H is coming on to me.I feel sorry for my AP.He is such a kind soul.he has been acting weird since yday-- the puppy face,awww ,i am quite sure its his W nagging on my AP again.

He has started sharing more and more about his M in general.He loves his kids but he himself is very unhappy at home and i hate to see him stuck like this.He has the right and deserves to be happy and not stay unhappy for the rest of his life.I want him for myself and cant see him going to her every night.they dont have sex but i want to have with him.

Whew, enough of my rant.I can see his puppy face through my cabin and feel like kissing him !!

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Fri, 01-09-2009 - 9:42am

I totally understand what you mean.I as well wouldnt want my thread taking another turn.

Thanks.

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Fri, 01-09-2009 - 10:16am
no i didn't hear from him..but that's my own fault...after he pissed me off yesterday i turned my cell off (which is the only type of phone i have) from about 2pm until this morning..i did it on purpose so as not to spaz out on him...i had two texts from him this morning ....but he sent them yesterday around 3:30pm and 4:45pm...asking me to call him, then asking me if i was still at work...all the while i had told him i was leaving work early, so he knew i wasn't there and i assume he knew i was p'od with his arse......oh well....i replied this morning with a text to him with the time i'm leaving work today and if he wanted to take the opportunity to spend time with me to call or text me..well he hasn't yet...so i can assume he doesn't want to...i am a firm believer in that people do what they WANT to do...so as your AP wants to stay in the situation he is in..so does mine...just like my AP doesn't WANT to see me that bad for if he did then he'd make provisions to do so....i'm in a major pissy mood...think i have PMS...my thingy is due in like 4-6 days....so i am not taking his tihs this weekend....at all...and i haven't had any good stuff for 2 weeks now....so i'm really in a major major major mood.....but i guess i'll calm down in a bit....writing here helps me not to act out on him....

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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