MM ask me a question.

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MM ask me a question.
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Wed, 02-11-2004 - 10:28am
So we're sitting at our local gin joint last night throwing back a few adult beverages with all our other pals. MM turns to me and says " What should I get my W for Valentine's Day? I need ideas." So I said the first thing that came to my mind, "Diamonds, of course". He was so funny, he says 'Well that's not going to happen". So I threw in a few more suggestions that he is going to look into. OK, so you're all probably wondering why I posted this stupid crap. So, I'll tell you:)I was wondering what you would do if you’re MM/OM ask you the same question. I got a little charge out of it! I have no idea why but I did:) NMR
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Wed, 02-11-2004 - 10:47am
Hey NMR -- good morning. When MM asks me advise about W, it makes me feel like he trusts me -- maybe that's why it gave you a kick? My temptation would have been to say something like you said.. but inside I'd be thinking -- "whatever it is, mine better be just as good". hee hee Go figure.
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Wed, 02-11-2004 - 12:29pm
My MM doesn't talk really about what he gets his W for Xmas, birthday (he never mentions even when it is her BDay) or any holidays. I just mentioned to him if he's getting ready for valentine's day. He basically ignored that comment.

I think he really likes to keep me separate from his "other" life.

He doesn't volunteer information, if I ask he'll tell. Alot of things, I'd rather not know anyways!!

Dusty
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Wed, 02-11-2004 - 1:02pm
hey girl -- i don't have to worry about that issue ever.

CL-Gurlfriend50

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Wed, 02-11-2004 - 1:57pm
MM only buys me personal gifts we use together, but not for any occasions really. I like it that way. I wouldn't know what to get him anyways that he would be able to keep, I've never even gotten a card for him. But he gets a special birthday present from me if you know what I mean, and he knows where to come for that, I even got him to come over before his golf game last year lol. I am a naughty girl today!!

Dusty
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Wed, 02-11-2004 - 3:12pm

did you offer golf lessons last year?!

CL-Gurlfriend50

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Wed, 02-11-2004 - 4:15pm

Hey NMR,


MM has never asked this from me... he is very good at getting gifts without advice... he's just one of those guys... but if he ever did ask... I'd be stoked!


However... I have gone to him about a present for my DH... I had wanted to get him some cologne but had no idea... perfect person MM! and I think he thoroughly enjoyed giving me the suggestions.


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Fri, 02-13-2004 - 1:24am
He always tells me what a good taste I have and... when he asked me

to help him choose a Christmas gift for his W I felt a little bit awkward but

I went Christms shopping with him. I have to admit I enjoyed giving him advice on

what he should get his daughter more than his W but when I look back at it

it's somehow flattering...
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Fri, 02-13-2004 - 8:35am
Oh, he doesn't need any lessons ... he is a pro lol !!!

Dusty
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