He's feeling guilty about cheating behind her back, therefore, the criticism of her to justify his hideous act. Seems like he's grooming you to be W#3. I'd be very wary, I'm sure after a few years of being W#3 you'll be the one under the microscope of his unfair critiques. Maybe someone should remind him that under the same microscope he's using for her, he also has flaws and isn't as palatable either.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
Perhaps it is a comfort level thing? Yes, I can tell things aren't so rosey in paradise as he once had me believing, especially with him opening up about home life.
I think he is becoming more comfortable revealing his feelings to you about W.
Obviously, something is wrong in paradise and he is now telling you what it is
and why he is involved with you. He is unhappy in his M and now you know why.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson
Grooming me to be W3? I highly doubt he is grooming me. Thanks for your input, however.
Hi Survivor...
Perhaps it is a comfort level thing? Yes, I can tell things aren't so rosey in paradise as he once had me believing, especially with him opening up about home life.
Thanks