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MM came back/W.preg/anyone been there?
| Sun, 10-19-2003 - 5:44pm |
Hello everyone, old and new...just one of those days today to stop by and say hello.
Well some of you may remember, MM and I (single) have been together for 2 years.
3 weeks ago somebody called his wife telling her something about he is seeing a women in that and that part of town....he paniced...said we wil just have to be friends..it si not what he wants....we work together...anyway...she went out of town to see her parents...and after the 2nd day at home us just talking on the phone(he has all the while been talking and calling me even since whoever called the house...I went along with the friendship thing..after all it was not my shoot to call....she is the one possibly loosing everything(they alrealdy have a son together, preschoolage)...all i woudl loose
is him...anyway...he came over and even spend the whole night ....it was too nice...
he kept on saying oh what am I gonna do...I can not loose you !...what am I gonna do..
I told him, please don;t worry you won;t have to do anything.
From the ones of you knowing my story...he is this superdevoted dad...who believes it is all about responsibilities...and obligations....and his son is his life....the pregnancy he says was planned by her...again he feels obligated towards the kids.
I feel like he should never have to choose between life with his kids or life with me
This would not be a good start for our being together.....so I am so floating on a cloud that he risked so much to still be with me....we have this incredible lchemistry and all
but at the same time I feel like I need to stop being in his life....he is to drawn to me...he I think can not stay away .....I am his everything he ever dreamed of , needed an dwanted in a women....his W. is more the b.... who takes him for granted....
so well ladies...I don;t know...thought of just staying for now..enjoy every moment together...and once the baby is born , early next year....well I will just drop out of his life...I believe this is maybe the only way for him to give his marriage , well his life with his kids, and her a fair chance....without me constantly interfearing..I know this sounds like a selfless act...but maybe you at some times out of the true love you have for someone do such thing?
Don;t get me wrong...the thought of it alone...breaks my heart....in two years our chemistry seems to grown more and more...he is everything to me .....
So yeah I agree with someone else who posted on here...this is not fair...
Most of all I guess I am afraid of what will happen after the birth of the baby..it will be a girl....I told him..the perfect family...he sighed..and said...hardly..you should know that...anyway...I guess partially I am scared and so I will end it then before he will end it with me?.........he never said he will leave...he said no I can not leave not now...but it is not fair to lead me on to wait either he says.....
but has anyone been with MM while you are single ( I have two kids) through a pregnancy?
I am so scared.......thansk for listening......
Well some of you may remember, MM and I (single) have been together for 2 years.
3 weeks ago somebody called his wife telling her something about he is seeing a women in that and that part of town....he paniced...said we wil just have to be friends..it si not what he wants....we work together...anyway...she went out of town to see her parents...and after the 2nd day at home us just talking on the phone(he has all the while been talking and calling me even since whoever called the house...I went along with the friendship thing..after all it was not my shoot to call....she is the one possibly loosing everything(they alrealdy have a son together, preschoolage)...all i woudl loose
is him...anyway...he came over and even spend the whole night ....it was too nice...
he kept on saying oh what am I gonna do...I can not loose you !...what am I gonna do..
I told him, please don;t worry you won;t have to do anything.
From the ones of you knowing my story...he is this superdevoted dad...who believes it is all about responsibilities...and obligations....and his son is his life....the pregnancy he says was planned by her...again he feels obligated towards the kids.
I feel like he should never have to choose between life with his kids or life with me
This would not be a good start for our being together.....so I am so floating on a cloud that he risked so much to still be with me....we have this incredible lchemistry and all
but at the same time I feel like I need to stop being in his life....he is to drawn to me...he I think can not stay away .....I am his everything he ever dreamed of , needed an dwanted in a women....his W. is more the b.... who takes him for granted....
so well ladies...I don;t know...thought of just staying for now..enjoy every moment together...and once the baby is born , early next year....well I will just drop out of his life...I believe this is maybe the only way for him to give his marriage , well his life with his kids, and her a fair chance....without me constantly interfearing..I know this sounds like a selfless act...but maybe you at some times out of the true love you have for someone do such thing?
Don;t get me wrong...the thought of it alone...breaks my heart....in two years our chemistry seems to grown more and more...he is everything to me .....
So yeah I agree with someone else who posted on here...this is not fair...
Most of all I guess I am afraid of what will happen after the birth of the baby..it will be a girl....I told him..the perfect family...he sighed..and said...hardly..you should know that...anyway...I guess partially I am scared and so I will end it then before he will end it with me?.........he never said he will leave...he said no I can not leave not now...but it is not fair to lead me on to wait either he says.....
but has anyone been with MM while you are single ( I have two kids) through a pregnancy?
I am so scared.......thansk for listening......
