MM cheating with another woman....
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MM cheating with another woman....
| Tue, 07-22-2003 - 11:50am |
What would you do if you found out your MM was cheating on his wife AND you with another woman?
| Tue, 07-22-2003 - 11:50am |
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I'm human. My first reaction when I thought about it was hurt and jealousy. But my pragmatic side soon came out and realized that hey, we're both cheating here, which by definition means we aren't exclusive to one another. We did not have any agreement whereby he could not be with still another woman if he thought he had the energy for it, lol! So, if he felt he needed to embroil himself in yet another relationship (what man would willingly deal with three women who are either pre, post, or menopausal?? lol!!), I wouldn't have any right to ask him not to. I would have to make the decision at that point whether I could deal with it or not.
Lucky
As stupid as it sounds (and I do admit that it does), I honestly have to say that I would be hurt and livid and probably end the A. I guess that I feel that what we have is special, as if fate drew us together. We have both admitted that while we love each other, that it is a love that can never realize its full potential, like star-crossed lovers, etc. etc. etc.. We married the wrong people, but for personal reasons, choose to live with that decision. To have our relationship down-graded into something else (even if that something else is reality) would suck and I mean big time. For now, we are the lovers that, tragically, can never really be together. I know (I really do) that once a cheater, always a cheater. I guess that I prefer my head to be in the sand with this one. Weird, how I can tolerate being the OW, but not the betrayed OW.
Food for thought.
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RH
Hope
Have a great day!
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