MM leaving to go on Vacation
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MM leaving to go on Vacation
| Fri, 12-05-2003 - 11:07am |
My MM leaves tomorrow for vacation w/ the W (they are separated.) We haven't actually had a full blown EMA but just a lot of flirting etc. I e-mailed him on Wednesday b/c I needed to hear back from him on his feelings of us working together again. It's friday and he still hasn't called or anything. In 10 months we have talked everyday. Either on the phone or e-mail. What is up? The last time he went of vacation out of the country, I was on vacation myself so I don't know if it is b/c he is busy trying to get out of the country and put up Christmas decorations or what. That's what he said he was going to do last night. AAHH. JUst freaking out. I want to talk to him before tomorrow. Should I call him or e-mail him?
Mic
Mic

regarding talking with MM, if you've left voicemail and/or email messages and he hasn't called back, he needs the space from you. keep your self-respect, girl. don't chase him down. he's just like any guy -- MM is shutting you out because his plate is full of other stuff HE considers more pressing. so let him go on vacation -- don't harass him. your answer is right in front of you.
do your own thing professionally as well as socially and let him to his own thing too!
good luck and stay busy,
gurl
He e-mailed me back on Friday, life at the office had been awful last week. He was really apologetic and he said he understood me freaking out and that he should do better when it comes to communication with me. He called Friday afternoon b/c he wanted to meet up before he went on vacation. I didn't answer and called back like an hour later. We played phone tag the rest of the night. Both of us were trying to avoid his W and my H knowing that we were calling each other. But Saturday morning, I was working and he called me. So Saturday afternoon, on his way to pick up W he came over. My H wasn't here. We talked for awhile. He didn't want to go on vacation w/ W. He asked if I would just leave and go w/ him. He said I'll buy a plane ticket for your son too. I laughed. It made me feel good to think that he had actually been thinking of taking me to Ireland w/ him. He said Mic, I'm going to miss you.
There is a party next weekend. THat we were both invited too. He is going to try to go. I showed him my cocktail dress for the party. He said take pictures if I don't make it. I want to see you in this dress. He hugged me. Kissed me. and left.
still know full blow EMA, but you know. it's better. i told MM, i feel like I obsess too much about you. he said i do that to you b/c i leave you hanging too much. i get busy and i should make time for you. I said yeah but i've got to move on and go on with my life. he said that's up to you.. moving on. but if i had my way. you wouldn't move on. he said, i need you more than you realize.
ahh, so opinions?
Mic
I am confused. Did you say you & your MM have not been intimate and you have been seeing him for 10 months? Why???? I give you alot of credit but I don't understand why you would risk your M for a man you are not being physical with.
Leslie