MM leaving home....
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| Wed, 04-14-2004 - 12:10pm |
he wants to leave her and be with me which is great, and im excited. i know things will work out. i just want to know how much time i should allow before i not necessarily push the issure, but bring it up about when he's leaving.
we were waiting for a wedding in his family to take place and that was 2 weeks ago. my birthday was in a month, so i was thinking that i could wait until then and then ask again what his plans were. we talk about it and he says its the hardest thing he has ever had to do. which i completely understand because there is a little boy involved. and he loves his son more then his own life.
and he lets me be apart of his sons life too. sometimes he will bring him over and we have so much fun. i just dont want to get hurt or my heart trampled on. i am beginning to fall in love with him, and thats another question. should i tell him exactly how i am feeling, or will that scare him away. i mean he wants to be with me, we have talked about what is going to happen when he leaves and hes told me that i stole his heart. its just
a question of when, ya know. please help!!!!!

many MM's say they are going to leave? I would not press the
issue, he at least said he was going to leave. I would be
patient, understanding until you think the time is right
to ask him the big question " WHEN?"
I know about falling in love, I am also in love with my MM. Are
you married? I am married also, but no kids on either side.
I read an article in Cosmo and the percentage on MM's leaving
their wifes are only 1%. I hope you and I are the 1%.
Much luck to you and keep us posted.
Bunny
I hope we are part of that 1%. i want to give him all the time he needs but i also dont want to necessarily "waste" time on a something that is just going to hurt me. trust me by no means do i think of it as a waste of time. we see each other every day at work and after work. he is with me every chance he gets. just not sure when he is going to leave. i know he plans on it and means too. he tells everyone at work how miserable he is and that he wants out.
I just things work out for me in the end. how do you see your MM if you are married as well? are you going to leave your husband, and is he leaving his wife? how long have you been going through this. like he tells me, he was going to be leaving whether i made a move on him or not, i am just a bonus for leaving.
It has been the happiest 5 months since we have started talking, and knowing him through work made it easier i think. its tough though to hide it at work. that is becoming quite the challenge the closer we get. im worried about all the bad things people are going to say about me when they find out. but what they dont know is how bad he hates being at his house, and that the only time he is happy is either when he is alone with his son out and about, or at my house (with or without him). and i know a lot of people who are reading this are probably thinking that im stupid, its just about sex, but its not. we really dont have physical contact like that too often. its just about being with each other because we make each other happy.
i will admit that i havent been sleeping because im so worried that all my happiness is just going to crash in my face, ya know? Good luck, Bunny, with everything and i hope that you are among the happy 1% as well and things work out for you. keep me posted!!!!
ConfusedHeart1811
47 and he 44. I have meen married 18years, no kids, him approx 10 years
also no kids. He has been a client of mine over 3 years, only
a professional basis. We started e-mailing each other, then
seeing each other after work, he works near my office.
He one day came in to pick up some info from me, and that is when
I fell in love. This has never happened to me, feeling this way.
I was perfectly content at home, until I saw his face.
We only have been together and done heavy petting, nothing else. This
passion we both have is so strong. I don't know if you can fall
in love with just a glance, but I believe I have.
As far has his feelings, the same. I think it will be harder for
us to be together, since we are older, and both have been in a
married state for a while. Only fate will tell. I will wait
for him forever if I have to.
I wish you all the luck, you are very young and hope you
and yours will be together very soon. Yes I want to be that
1% also, very very much.
Keep in touch, and advise whats happening with both of you.
Thanks again for listening,
Bunny