MM make a good life partner?
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MM make a good life partner?
| Thu, 12-18-2003 - 10:09am |
I have been a lurker here for months and months and I am very proud of all of the posters here. It is very brave to put your feelings out there and see how people respond back to you.
Now, back to my question. I have been with MM for 3 years. I have been married for 14 years and have a 2 yr old DD. My H and I are very compatible and happy. MM is completely the opposite of H. MM and I have a connection that will never be broken. We have had it since we dated in high school 20 yrs ago. We just seem to click with each other. BUT MM and I both know that we would never make it as a couple. Our life styles are so very different that we would never be able to mesh it into a workable full-time R. He has all the traits that really turn me on but I would hate to have them in a H.
Is there anyone out there who has this same kind of R?
SAM

Opposites attract, but can unfortunately make for a rough ride throughout a marriage (Lord, do I know that!!!!)
Charlotte
so i guess i'm undecided about MM as a life partner because i haven't really thought about it much and MM and I certainly haven't discussed anything like that -- other than that if we were together, we would have sex every day and we'd kill each other!!
gurl
Here is what I think makes for a good life partner:
A friend who cares for the spouse's opinion. Small things do matter and its the small things that need a personal touch from the spouse. I don't believe in don't sweat the small stuff in relationships like h & w. Respect for each other's wishes and making an effort to do as much to accomodate them.
gurl