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| Thu, 02-26-2004 - 4:23pm |
I know this situation is crazy and I think I got in way over my head. It started out innocent enough, just phone conversations, having a coke and visiting. Then my H and the OM wanted a 3way. Well I had never done anything like this before, so I guess I was a little curios. Well we did it and everything was fine.....for a while. Then a 1-on-1 relationship started. It was so crazy. can you imagine your H taking you to see another man? Letting this OM come to your home and be with your wife. I guess I felt a little unwanted by my H. Well, it has been going on for about 9 months now. Yes the OM is married, in fact he has been married for 26 years to the same woman. I love my H very much, the only problem is I love the OM too. He(OM) always talks about leaving his wife to come be with me, and usually I blow him off because I KNOW he won't leave. He tries to tell me what I can and can't do, who I can talk to, etc. If he finds out that I have been w/ my H sexually then he flips out. He even says he "wants to keep "it" sore so I can't be with my H(His exact words). He says there are 2 reasons he wants to have a kid with me.#1 His kids are grown and he misses having a little one around. #2 It would always be a tie to me. #2 sent up a red flag Anyways I have been w/my H for 5 years-married almost 4. My kids are both under the age of 3. I tell the OM that it is confusing for my 3 year-old for him to want her to call him daddy. But he thinks it is funny. I hope this info helps. Any questions are welcome. Like I said this is CRAZY!

kristin, honey, that man is a sick, twisted, control freak!
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
You listen to Gurl and ge rid of this wacko before you end up as a newspaper headline.