moving across country for AP - insane??

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Registered: 08-11-2009
moving across country for AP - insane??
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Sat, 12-12-2009 - 8:35pm

So AP and I have had a major wrench thrown into the works of us making a life together.... our company is seriously considering relocating him to the corporate office - COMPLETELY across the country!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2009
Sun, 12-13-2009 - 1:46am
Why would you consider it--because you Love him :)
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Registered: 11-28-2009
Sun, 12-13-2009 - 10:11am

I do not think its a good idea to uproot your kid for promises that may never come true...and what if you do have a relationship....chances are it will NOT last. Then what? I will bet that he also stays with the wife and she goes with him.

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Sun, 12-13-2009 - 10:52am
You really need to consider all aspects before moving in with him.Before you jump the gun,wait and see what your AP does with his M.In 6 months time he needs to D for you to move in with him along with your child.Even if he gets separation,there are chances of him going back to his W.Dont make a change till his status changes.
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Registered: 08-11-2009
Sun, 12-13-2009 - 12:02pm
Yes, I am definitely in total agreement with you there.