Moving out?
Find a Conversation
Moving out?
| Tue, 12-08-2009 - 9:42pm |
A question for those who are married:
Say that you are planning on leaving your marriage to be with your AP. How would you go about leaving your marriage?
Please describe in detail. For example, would you get a place to move to and then tell your H? Or would you tell your husband first, and then find a place to move? Would you tell your husband about your affair/AP? Or would you rather him not know to spare him the pain? Would you still keep your AP a secret after deciding you want a divorce?

Face it. If the only reason you are having the affair is because your husband is failing to measure up to your expectations, wether it be his actions, or some physical desire, he isn't likely to either wish to make a change, or be able to do it.
At the same time, if you really think you are filling any or all needs of his while maintaining a 2nd relationship, you are fooling yourself.
Tell him, and it will be over faster than it takes for him to get a van to move you out.
My Own Opinion.