My AP is too emotional
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| Sun, 11-16-2008 - 3:59pm |
After a few weeks of me wondering why he couldn't commit to a time to go out on a Saturday night, I finally got him to confess that his W was making Saturday night family dinner night. She serves fast food for most other meals.
This week, we agreed on meeting after 9 b/c he "wasn't feeling well". I went to a popular place near his home while I waited, as I was already dressed and ready by 7. Our original time to meet was 7:30. He got angry that I went "out" without him. I just don't understand why he gets his drawers all bunched up and resorts to calling me a "F**** Spoiled Brat". I feel he needs to grow up here. He went on about how his W has always left him hanging in the past while she was busy with her color guard stuff and that I was no different.
I may be a bit of a princess, but I am a Leo. I am caring and giving. I would bend over backwards to make him happy, if I knew what would make him happy.
ps. he is always "not feeling well". I am the one who is disabled, yet I never complain. I have a cage in my neck, 3 cages in my lower back and this year I had a rod placed in my left leg and the right leg had to be screwed back together and the knee re-built. It has been a long process, but I am resilient.
Should I just let him go, or can we work this out?

If my AP called me any kind of name, I would walk. It sounds more like your AP is a spoiled brat, not you. If you want to keep enabling him to treating you poorly, then keep doing what you're doing. Personally, I'd be setting new boundaries on what you find acceptable and asking him to step up or get out. I think he's using the excuse of feeling unwell because he really isn't as into you as you are with him. Try backing off and being unavailable next time he wants to meet up and see what happens.
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