Listen to your conscience and what it's telling you. We have them for a reason. If you can work the sex problem out with your H, that would be ideal. Give him a chance to fix it if he can. If he can't then it's only fair he knows you have someone who can give that to you. You don't have to live in a sexless world, but, your H also have a choice if he still want to be your H if he has to share you with someone else.
Oh, and the H's friend? Big no NO! Imagine how dangerously ugly that can get. I wouldn't go there.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
Listen to your conscience and what it's telling you. We have them for a reason. If you can work the sex problem out with your H, that would be ideal. Give him a chance to fix it if he can. If he can't then it's only fair he knows you have someone who can give that to you. You don't have to live in a sexless world, but, your H also have a choice if he still want to be your H if he has to share you with someone else.
Oh, and the H's friend? Big no NO! Imagine how dangerously ugly that can get. I wouldn't go there.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson