My heart is breaking....
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My heart is breaking....
| Thu, 09-04-2003 - 4:35pm |
Why is it hurting SO much to leave a man that I don't love anymore. I'm not sure if I was even "IN-LOVE" with my h when we got married. Why is it so hard? I feel like I would rather stay than hurt him in any way. He's not even begging me to stay. He hasn't even told me that he even loves me. Please help!!!!

Thats why sometimes I see people who are unhappy in there marriages but decide to stay for one reason or another and I cant understand it. If they only knew the pain goes away and if your unhappy thats not good for your health it just brings negativity. WE all need positive energy and happiness...everyone deserves to be happy.
As far as him not telling you he loves you or asking you back...im sure that hurts you. Maybe he is just being strong and sucking it up...I dont know your whole situation so its hard to say.
I wish you the best...hugs...SANDY
I am where you are. I know that I do not love my H, and likely never really did. However, it is not easy ending a relationship with someone I've known most of my life. Even though I am looking far in the future to be happier when this is all over and done, it hurts right now.
I'm wondering if you are also feeling hurt because your H hasn't begged you to stay or told you that he loves you...