My introduction

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Registered: 04-26-2004
My introduction
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Thu, 05-20-2004 - 6:01pm
I've been lurking here but I decided it was time to open up. Actually I'm doing this for my sanity. I'm a male who is in an A with a SW and so far I have been able to keep a tight lid on the whole thing. My best friend doesn't even know about it and I plan on keeping it that way. I just can't run the risk of telling someone and have them tell someone and work it's way back to W. We've gotten together a few times during the last couple months, but talk to each other almost everyday.

I love my W but she doesn't do it for me in the bedroom lately.

I've asked the OW if she was okay with this arraingement concidering she just got out of a long term relationship and she's a workaholic, with a kid who I have not exposed myself to for many reasons. I also live in a small enough town where I could be in serious doo doo if the wrong person found out. With that we don't meet each other in that town (We live in the same town)

I have a lot more to say, but out of time for now. Just needed to confide somewhere.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2004
Thu, 05-20-2004 - 6:13pm
Welcome to the board, Blue Eye Babe. I have only been here a month or so myself. Like you I am married, however I'm seeing a MM. I don't dare tell anyone about this, so finding this board has been a place for support, help and a few laughs. The A is unlike any relationship we have encountered, so having a place to relax and chat has been an help.

Good luck, and welcome again.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-26-2004
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 11:18am
I already feel better for "telling" someone.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2004
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 1:15pm
Hey blue eye babe....welcome to the board.
cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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Registered: 05-19-2004
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 9:38am
WELCOME "blue eye babe"!

Hope that you find some good advice in here, some comforting words, and realize that you're not alone in this particular journey.

Remember- take what you want and leave the rest behind!

My best to you,

jen