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Mon, 08-23-2010 - 4:44pm

A whole lot has happened this weekend, and in particular this morning.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-15-2008
In reply to: anotherseyes
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 5:06pm
Good for you!
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Registered: 04-27-2010
In reply to: anotherseyes
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 5:12pm

Best wishes, another (HUG).


I know your T will likely 'splain this, but just in case: You're likely to go through a grieving process over the loss of AP...google stages of grief and know what's ahead as it will help to know what to expect. It's HARD to grieve that loss and work on a M simultaneously (BTDT), BUT you're both on board so that makes a HUGE positive difference. One small step at a time... enjoyed your insights here and you will be missed, but you're moving to a better place for you :) I'm HAPPY for you...

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Registered: 05-17-2003
In reply to: anotherseyes
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 6:25pm

I'm so happy that you've gotten to this place with your H another...a big yay for you both!


We will all miss your positive posts, I'm sure. I do hope that you come back in a little while to let us know how it's going with you.


Great good luck to you, you deserve all the best!


benska

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Registered: 04-11-2010
In reply to: anotherseyes
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 7:43pm
All the very very best AE- I'll miss you xx
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Registered: 08-11-2009
In reply to: anotherseyes
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 8:35pm

Wow!

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Registered: 03-26-2010
In reply to: anotherseyes
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 9:10pm

WHoa!

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Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: anotherseyes
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 9:56pm
We will all miss you AE. I also wonder what it was that happened this morning to help you decide this today. I wish you would share it - it might be something someone else could use in their journey. I'm not sure if you're going to EAS or not, I'll look for you there. I like to keep up with our friends who move on, even if I can't post to them wherever they go, I CAN know how they're doing. I wish you and your H well! I know there are rebuilding couples on AAS (after the affair) also! Please take care sweetie.

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Registered: 10-03-2009
In reply to: anotherseyes
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 10:54pm

I will surely miss your all-pink, larger than life sig. :-)

I am very happy for you though..

And that "clicking" does happen, I know what you mean..

Best of luck.. and do stop by once in a while, even if to say hi and let us know how things are going.. I doubt lexi will mind since you are such a good friend around here..

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Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: anotherseyes
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 8:20am

Of course I wouldn't mind. :-) I never mind people posting who used to be in affairs and now are not, as long as they truly express support and not any judgmental type of pseudo support (you know, the type ex-smokers seem to dole out to smokers LOL). There are vets at EAS who used to post here and I always enjoyed their posts when they kept in mind that this was MAS and not EAS. It's a fine line but I know it when I see it. :-)

So, AE, I think I would always welcome your support to others here, and especially we would all love to see updates.

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You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull

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Registered: 05-03-2010
In reply to: anotherseyes
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 11:16am

Thank you all :).


I think it was a culmination of things, I think, but one thing stands out: him being with someone else.

anotherseyes

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