My M is over..

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Registered: 11-17-2007
My M is over..
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Fri, 07-10-2009 - 3:02pm
After this past week when i was as sick as a dog and my H did NOTHING to help me out nor ever even asked how i felt, i've decided i cannot live like this anymore. He even had the nerve to tell me to pack my and my daughter's stuff up and leave. I told him the other kids were going with me too as they didn't want to live with him. And they don't. I was sent to the ER cuz i was so sick, and let my H know they were sending me there. He didn't offer to drive me, i drove myself. Then he texts me he is going boating! Today i was told i wasted his time by him giving me a ride to get my paycheck. I was too weak to drive, and was afraid i'd pass out at the wheel. But because i didn't give him any money from the check, i wasted his time.
The man has no friends, its not hard to figure out why.
AP on the other hand, has been emailing me every day to ask me how I'm doing. As other friends have done this week too. At least i have some people who make me feel like i'm cared about. I'd rather live alone and be sick and take care of myself, than to have a H treat me as tho i'm nothing to him. My kids were of no help to me either. I still think if i had actually had some help from my family in the first place, i would not have been getting sicker and sent to the ER.
I am ending my marriage to save my sanity.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: emscemily
Fri, 07-10-2009 - 5:30pm
(((HUGS))) There is nothing worse than feeling like you are nothing to your family. I can't believe how lousy your h treats you. Get that d filed and get it going. Jeez, I thought my stbx was bad, but at least he takes care of things when I'm sick (except he doesn't drive, so I get no help there at all). I just want to smack your h, and I'd have called my ap to take me to er (my stbx actually had my om take me to the ER several months ago, before it was an A.) Save your sanity, get out!
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Registered: 11-17-2007
In reply to: emscemily
Sat, 07-11-2009 - 11:29am
Today i noticed that H posted on myspace for all to see that he is leaving me. He says he is tired of the bullsh***. He hasn't spoken to me since yesterday. I assume he thinks everything is my fault as usual. I am going to the womens center here to see if they can help me. He is in the process of abandoning me and the kids. I am also going to social services to see if theres anything they can do. Any other suggestions anyone can make?
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Registered: 01-12-2009
In reply to: emscemily
Mon, 07-13-2009 - 12:34pm
I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through.