my new neighbor

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Registered: 03-03-2007
my new neighbor
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Sun, 11-22-2009 - 10:26pm

hi there everyone wow i never thought i would be back on here after a few years, well for starters, i am now single and have been very much so for a while already, just moved in to a brand new apartment, one week later the finest man i have ever seen in my life, moves to the empty apartment right on top of me...unfortunetly he is not single, he lives there with his girlfriend. and the other day i was sitting otuside and he began talking to me, the chemistry was soo intense i have never felt like this before. we ended up having sex in my apartment, and we have been doing so for the past week. im soo crazy about this guy i wouldnt know how to end it, being that i am always going to see him since he lives right on top of me. he is so sexy to me that i dont think i want to end it, and even though i know its just sex because we have not talked about feelings or relationship ...we havent really talked much, i just want him that bad.

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 7:05am

Umm . I'm confused, is he M or living with a gf? You kind of said both.

-jana

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-03-2007
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 5:55pm
hes living with her he says there not married.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2005
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 7:43pm

Weeelllllll


Is this the kind of guy you want and find sexy. One that will crawl into bed with the first sexy available gal he finds.


Put yourself in his gf's shoes and see how you would feel


Sorry


Kat

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2007
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 9:27am
You gave it up too soon. You have now placed yourself in a situation where he will not respect you. Are you looking for someone who will just jump your bones and throw you to the side. If so, you've found it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-21-2008
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 10:06am
Is this where you come for support or for judgement???
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2009
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 2:33pm

In the spirit of honesty and NON judgement...


Sounds like just hot sex.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-08-2009
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 2:34pm
I agree with the other posters....never sh*t where you eat....that is way too close for comfort. Other neighbors will bust you
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-03-2007
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 6:37pm
thank u all for the support i was thinking this was a support group but i guess im the bad guy in the group huh, from my understanding we are all here in some kind of affair so who are those to judge? anyways i do understand that it was not in my best interest to sleep with a neighbor or

 

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Registered: 06-15-2006
Wed, 11-25-2009 - 2:44pm

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Advice on what?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
Wed, 11-25-2009 - 4:52pm

Hi,

I for one welcome you. I am from the 'like having affairs' division of this site. Others are all about scolding us etc. Of course I know the risks and dangers of A-land. I choose to do it anyway and it's my choice. Anyway, I'm here for support and I support you however you decide to handle this.

--jana

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