My psychotherapist had sex with me!
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| Thu, 06-18-2009 - 6:20pm |
Well I don't know where to start. I started sleeping with my therapist 3 years ago. It was exciting and fun - sex was great!! Had issues with him never calling or testing me. I did all the work. In Jan he said he was not able to meet with me at his ofc b/c of a school function for his 15 yr old son. I have to go by there and sure enough he was there and so I waited- a girl came out and they kissed goodbye. I confronted him and he denied it- blah blah blah. Well fast forward to 1 week ago. I went by his ofc and there was a mini van there. I went and knocked on the door. He finally came out and his pants leg was caught in his sock and he had a semi erection. He told me his wife was in there and that she was driving a different car, etc. He told me to go home and he would call me later. So - I hid and waited to see this woman. His wife is black. This lady was white! I called him and he said that he had nit left the ofc yet. I told him that I saw the lady come out and it was not his wife - he said that the lady was a Parole officer that rents space from him. I asked him where his wife went - he said there was another car there. There were only two cars in the lot - I asked him if she evaporated through vents?? I told him just to be honest with me for once and he cont to tell me I was the only one.
Ok - 1st I know he is lying. 2nd, I am afriad these two women could be patients like I was. I have gone to talk to a therapist and talking about what happened. She thinks I need to turn him in. I am thinking about it. I am crushed! I trusted him so much - b/c I was so sad and hurt when I started seeing him as a patient. He took advantage of that - kissing and hugging after each session. How stupid can I be!!!
Then- I looked him up and found that another woman turned him in for similar sexual advances in 2005. He got probation. I am hurt, embarassed for hiding and waiting for the woman and mad. Thank u for reading.

Hey girl, boy I feel so
First - honey I am so sorry that you're going through this experience. I know where you're coming from because my xAP is a compulsive liar and cheat. So it makes the situation more difficult if he's your therapist! I mean... he's supposed to be someone you trust (not a liar) and that is there to help you (not take advantage of you).
You definitely MUST report him to the proper authorities! This man is taking advantage of women who are vulnerable and in need of his help, and who are not in the right state of mind to help themselves.
I feel sorry for his poor wife. She probably thinks he's going to work - and instead he's molesting his patients! urgh...
I'm really sorry you had to go through this... again, I know how it feels to be caught up in lies. Best thing is to leave the situation and report him.
I hope you do for the sake of other women so they dont' have to go thru what you did.
Stop all contact with him.