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|Tue, 08-14-2012 - 12:45pm|
I'm once again coming out of lurker-dom to share my update.
I am a newly seperated W (4 mos) in an A for nearly 2 years (1.5 physical) with a very newly seperated M. So technically I guess we are no longer in an A. I had a d-day 4mos ago, my H would have worked on the M, but I just couldn't do it anymore. I kept telling everyone (and myself) for years that we had a great marriage, we were happy, etc. but he was verbally and emotionally abusive and it took its toll. I stayed with AP, but have been enjoying myself
AP left his wife this weekend...he is making plans to get a new place, they are having "the talk" tonight re: finances, etc. It was quite shocking for me to hear the news that he left. He had always told me that he had plans to leave, and I did believe him, I just didn't expect it, I don't know why.
Are we going to be together IRL, it is pointing towards that direction. I have three small children, he has 2 teenagers. And just the other day he made a comment about when things settle down, maybe going out with my kids to the park or something (to meet them).
Anyways, right now I am just enjoying my life and freedom, seperating from my H was the best decision I ever made and I am happier now than I had been in a long time.
I hope to be around more these days. If you have any questions, ask away!